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Newsletter Issue 1

December 2005

 

This is the first SERIOUS MOMS newsletter!!  Please note that I am sending this first newsletter out to many e-mail addresses, and I will only send future newsletters to you if you request it.  So in other words, if I don't get a response that you'd like to subscribe after this one, I won't send you any more.  So please subscribe to this newsletter!
 

A Question for Y'all

Last year I asked ladies for some good gift ideas for children (and now you can find them under Christmas Ideas).  This year I'd like to know how you're teaching your little ones about Jesus during the holiday season?  How do you turn the focus back on Him?  What traditions, tools, games, stories, or songs do you use?  Share your thoughts and experiences, and I'll post them on the site!

 

What I'm Reading...

 

I'm a reader, but I don't always finish the books I read. After all, like you, I'm a busy mom! When I've soaked up enough information on one topic, I set the book down and move on to other books that pertain to my life more at the moment (and usually go back to those old books someday when I need them again!). I usually have a pile of books stacked beside my bed, and some on the bookshelf in the family room as well. I grab interesting tidbits and awesome information from different books, and I will point out 1 or 2 of my favorite books in each newsletter!

Lately, I have been focused on 2 particular subjects: 1. Child Training, and 2. Homeschooling. Regarding child training, I have been reading Michael and Debi Pearl's book No Greater Joy, Volume One and have seen a tremendous improvement in my children's attitudes (and in mine!) since using their techniques. If you're finding yourself frustrated in your role as a mom, some good training (of your children & of yourself!) might cure your frustration. I recommend No Greater Joy, because it is an easy read (it has tiny sections, so you can read little bits at a time), and it is full of great ideas for training your children.

Regarding homeschooling, I have been looking through Rebecca Rupp's book  Home Learning Year by Year : How to Design a Homeschool Curriculum from Preschool Through High School. Like William J. Bennett's The Educated Child, Rebecca points out what children should be learning in each topic, by grade level. My kids are only 2, almost 3 and 4, but I've gone over her list of good books for preschoolers and have found it to be useful. I borrowed this book from the library, but it's so full of great information (for preschool through 12th grade!) that I think I am going to need to buy a copy of this one to hold on to for future reference!

 

Little House on the Prairie Fan Page

Do you love Little House on the Prairie as much as I do?  Well if you do, you'll enjoy my new Little House on the Prairie Fan Page!!  I spent hours on this page (it could literally be it's own site!), and I loved every minute of it!  In this section, you will find: links to all of the Little House on the Prairie books, videos, CDs, craft books, cookbooks, books about Laura, and other Little House on the Prairie goods.  I have reviewed several Little House episodes, but I still have many, many more to go!  Please check out this section of Serious Moms if you enjoy Laura's books and her story!

 

Christmas is Coming!

I don't know about you, but I dread even going near the mall this time of year.  And it's so much work to make my lists, find a parking spot, walk (what feels like) a mile or 2 to get into the mall, then walk from store to store and from department to department just to find the perfect gift for every single person on my list.  And since there aren't shopping carts at the mall, how many trips, realistically, do we have to make? 

A couple of years ago (when I was on bed rest with our son Kaleb), I bagged the idea of going to the mall!  I decided to do all of my Christmas shopping online instead.  Now that's all I do any more.  It is so much easier to type in a different store name, or to click on a different online department than it is to go trekking through the mall with 5 zillion bags of goodies.  It's much easier to decide on a gift when I can read reviews about it (like on Amazon.com).  It's so nice to do my Christmas shopping during naptime or in the evening, and from the comfort of my own home.  No more hiring a sitter to go shopping.  No more leaving my husband alone with the kids and ditching my family for the evening.  No more awful parking and walking miles in the cold just to get some awesome gifts.  And best of all: when I shop online, I can compare prices and find the best deals.  No impulse buying.  No overspending.  I shop with a calculator and my budget in front of me.

So my trick?  I watch for deals.  I go to  Amazon.com several times throughout the months of October and November, and I watch for their free shipping deals.  Often, they have free shipping deals on toys, and on kitchen tools & gadgets.  And of course, they always have free shipping on books, if you spend $25 or more.  I watch for deals like these, and then I make my order.  I keep a word document running with my gift ideas for each individual, and then I highlight it once it's been purchased.  Then I wait.  And I love the "ding dong" of the UPS person, the package on the doorstep, and the anticipation of "whose gift came today??"  See?  Shopping can be fun!  Why dread it, when it can be so much more enjoyable!  And you can be finished early.  Today is November 21st, and as I write this letter, I am awaiting the last of my packages.  I ordered everything last week, and I am finished with my Christmas shopping.  Now you know my trick, and you can be finished too!    

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I have recently created an entire Christmas section on Serious Moms, including a large gift giving guide.  Please check it out if you are stumped on what to get your loved ones!

If you click on my links to Amazon.com and purchase an item, about 5% of your purchase (at no additional cost to you) will go towards supporting Serious Moms.  Please keep this in mind anytime you want to make a purchase through Amazon.com!

Got Kids? Women's T-Shirt We now have SERIOUS MOMS shirts, bumper stickers, magnets, bibs, aprons, and more!  Check out www.cafepress.com/seriousmoms to see our store!! 
 

Can You Test For Bugs? :)

My husband is a software tester, and he "tests for bugs" in programs all day long.  Well, I don't have a full-time (or even part time) bug tester for Serious Moms, and there are certainly enough bugs to keep me busy!  I usually spend Monday evenings on Serious Moms--and I could either spend the entire time searching for bugs, or adding more content.  So many times, I am torn--do I fix what is broken, or add more wonderful content to the site?  I was wondering if you all could be my bug testers.  I'm not asking you to do a lot of work.  I'm just asking that, if you're searching through the site and you find a broken link, a misspelled word, or something that looks kind of funny, you e-mail me about it.  It's easy for me to fix bugs--it's just a tedious process to search for them!  So please let me know if you see any problems with the site, and then I'll label you an official "bug tester!"

 

A Challenge for Wives

I don't know about you, but when I'm stressed, I struggle to control the words that come out of my mouth.  Unfortunately, those around me (the ones I love the most) are the ones that have to hear the poison that can sometimes seep from my tongue. 

 

James 3:7-9 says:

"All kinds of animals, birds, reptiles and creatures of the sea are being tamed and have been tamed by man, but no man can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison. With the tongue we praise our Lord and Father, and with it we curse men, who have been made in God's likeness." (NIV)

No man can tame the tongue.  No man can, but Jesus can.  My challenge for all of us is that we begin praying about our tongue and the words we will speak this Christmas season.  Will we bless our family and make this holiday wonderful?  Or will we make it bittersweet, filling their mouths with delightful treats and their ears with ugliness? 

Let us pray this prayer together:

LORD in the midst of this busy season, let my tongue speak your praises, and let my family hear from me only "whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable," and whatever is excellent or praiseworthy.   Please LORD, keep the ugliness from my heart and from my tongue.  Control it LORD, I know you can, and I cannot.  Amen.

 

Note: in your quiet times, try doing a study on the words "tongue," "lips," or "words."  Use www.BibleGateway.com and do keyword searches. 

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Have a Merry Christmas, Ladies!

 

In Christ's Name,

Brenda Scott

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