Creating a love jar:

Get 2 empty jars.  Decorate them if you wish, but you don’t have to.  Label one jar with your name, and one with your husband’s name.  Have your husband write down 5 things he’d like you to do to show him love, and you write down 5 things you’d like him to do to show you love (on separate pieces of paper, so that you’ve each written on 5 little pieces of paper).  Fold up your pieces of paper, and stick the ones that you wrote in your own love jar.  Every time the syllabus says “Draw a Love Jar item,” draw a piece of paper from his love jar (and have him draw one from yours).  Do not tell each other which one you’ve drawn, just make it a plan to follow through with whatever that piece of paper asks you to do sometime that week.