Who I should be as a Godly wife….

• Inseparably united to my husband (Genesis 2:24)
• Kindhearted (Proverbs 14:1)
• Discreet (Proverbs 11:22)
• Building up my house (Proverbs 14:1)
• Not quarrelsome (Proverbs 19:13)
• Of noble character (Proverbs 31:10)
• Lacking nothing of value (Proverbs 31:11)
• Giving my husband full confidence in me (Proverbs 31:11)
• Bringing my husband good and not harm (Proverbs 31:12)
• A worker with my hands (Proverbs 31:13)
• Not lazy (Proverbs 31:13)
• Willing to go out and get food for my family (Proverbs 31:14)
• Awake when others are still sleeping, making food for my family (Proverbs 31:15)
• Making meals for my family and for others (Proverbs 31:15)
• Resourceful and wise (Proverbs 31:16)
• A hard worker (Proverbs 31:17)
• Strong (Proverbs 31:17)
• Never lazy or selfish (Proverbs 31:18)
• Always working (Proverbs 31:19)
• Giving and helpful (Proverbs 31:20)
• Prepared—planning ahead (Proverbs 31:21)
• Talented, creative, industrious—and using those qualities for my family’s sake (Proverbs 31:22)
• Well dressed (Proverbs 31:22)
• Encouraging and uplifting to my husband—so much so that he’s respected and has confidence in himself (Proverbs 31:23)
• A finisher of tasks around the home so that my husband doesn’t have to and he’s free to serve for God’s kingdom (Proverbs 31:23)
• Helping my husband provide for our family in any way I can (Proverbs 31:24)
• Strong and dignified (Proverbs 31:25)
• Not stressed or worried about the future (Proverbs 31:25)
• Speaking wisdom and “faithful instruction” (Proverbs 31:26)
• Watchful and alert of my household (Proverbs 31:27)
• Not idle (Proverbs 31:27)
• Raising children who will be of God (Proverbs 31:28)
• Fearing the Lord (Proverbs 31:28)
• Not focused on being charming or beautiful to the world (Proverbs 31:30)
• Submissive to my husband “as to the Lord” (Ephesians 5:22, 1 Peter 3:1)
• Pure and reverent (1 Peter 3:2)
• Beautiful within (1 Peter 3:4)
• “Gentle and quiet” in spirit (1 Peter 3:5)
• Not giving “way to fear” (1 Peter 3:6)
• Not depriving my husband of our physical relationship (1 Corinthians 7:5)
• Be learning in quietness and submission (1 Timothy 2:11)

My Daily Goals as a Godly Wife:

By Brenda Scott

• Give him compliments and praises

• Stay away from any form of criticism

• Do not blame him for things that are not his fault

• Make him a healthy dinner every night

• Prepare a lunch for him to take to work

• Make sure he has food for breakfast and snacks

• Iron clothes for him to wear to work

• Show him love in ways that he understands it

• Do not ask him to serve me

• Instead, serve him!!

• Do something especially nice for him today!

• Do all of these things (and show love!!) even if I do not feel like it today